In moments of fear we are only as small as we believe ourselves to be. When we open up, and take the time to shape the person we want to be, our fear is shaped without its permission. We find ourselves becoming different as we accept facets of life around us that can help and not hurt us. They are everywhere, so open your eyes and take in the goodness of yourself and others. Life is meant to be a wonderful adventure.
Ordinary people tend to reflect only on their reality, and exhibit a fear of their reality. Extraordinary people reflect on their dreams, and its correlation with life. They cherish their hope and shape their reality. Luckily, within, we are all truly extraordinary.
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of one and a half years. I did it because I wasn't in love with her anymore, not like a boyfriend should be. The only problem is she is still my best friend. I am broken up over it but I keep thinking that it's not fair that she thinks I never loved her, it's not fair that I hurt my best friend, it's not fair that I broke up with her and I still cry myself to sleep every night. Do you think She will ever forgive me?
Yeah I do, i think people always need time, but if you aren’t happy, you don’t have to be in that relationship. She will probably realize that you did love her and I think gratitude and understanding for the people in our lives comes back into our conscious after the dust settles.
hi cat, i just found out someone liked me, but said i am too difficult and i wouldn't let them get close. i have always been shy and it's really hard for me to start conversation with people, most of them don't even try to talk to me, including that person...i think i will always be alone, because people always see me as "the one that doesn't talk" and don't even give me a chance, it's frustrating at times...
I have gone through similar blocks in my social life where I just can’t seem to find anything to talk about other than why I feel like I can’t talk! It really hindered my social life and ended up hurting me. What I did in this situation was a I realized I needed to recreate myself, or extend myself beyond these little feelings that I felt where darkening everything in my life. The wonderful thing about life is we could sit in a room by ourselves wondering why everything is so dark even with the light on, or we can sit in the same room in the same way with a fantasy novel or an informative guide about some crazy concept and we are suddenly absorbing all of this new information, creativity and expression of another human being. Find the internal conversations you can have like this that will extend your emotional vocabulary. When you do this, you will have more to talk about with others, and more to connect on. Always look to feel confident within yourself before becoming fixated on what is around you. When you build this confidence and stability within, you will easily find the positivity and stability around you! And I’m sure you have a lot of things that you love that you have forgotten about because your mind has become lost in a single feeling. List all of the things that you love about life, about friendship and about yourself. Imagine what you believe to be a really truly supportive and good friendship and relationship, and don’t become frustrated if someone isn’t meeting those standards, just have patience for the people that really truly are what you were searching for! <333